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Hello Darlings,
Last night while reading Vanity Fair, I came upon an interesting quote by Thackeray:
" To know nothing, or little, is in the nature of some husbands. To hide, in the nature of how many women? O ladies! how many of you have surreptitious milliners' bills? How many of you have gowns and bracelets, which you daren't show, or which you wear trembling? - trembling, and coaxing with smiles the husband by your side, who does not know the new velvel gown from the old one, or the new bracelet from last year's, or has any notion that the ragged-looking yellow lace scarf cost forty guineas, and that Madame Bobinot is writing dunning letters every week for money! Thus Rawdon knew nothing about the brilliant diamond ear-rings, or the superb brilliant ornament which decorated the fair bosom of his lady;"
Vanity Fair by W. M. Thackeray, pg.469.
Women during 1840s had similar problems that women do today...
So is obsession and guilt really a part of our womanly nature???
Sometimes a girl needs a pick-me-up but how often is too often?
When do you become a shopping whore?
When do you become a liar?
The moment I read this Vanity Fair article all of these thoughts came to mind. Why do women over-shop, WHY DO WE DO IT? I realize that over-shopping is half the problem, the other half is LYING. While over-shopping is glamorized in the world of fashion, it is a problem that most women have come to accept. Another perspective is that no fashion magazine or "fashionista" is willingly going to mention... The Lie behind it all. The dirty side that no one wants to discuss. So it got me thinking, how many of us lie for the sake of fashion?
Over-shopping is accepted and embraced in some narcissistic way since women enjoy doing it. But what about lying. How many of us have lied about shopping? How many of you hide your purchases? How many of you realize that underneath all of the glamor and fancy it is one hell of a nasty problem, which is addiction? Why is it that women are the main target?
Personally, I am a liar... I lie to myself.
I shop unnecessarily, and when I don't want to...
Then I comfort myself with the thought that my new item is fabulous.
Fabulous? What am I thinking, I am a smart woman who knows better. I know exactly what I am doing, but then why can't I resist??? So after every shopping trip, I either "forget" to mention some of the purchases or just simply lie... Why? I don't know, it's not like anyone punishes me. The only reason is the guilt... and shame from not being able to control myself. AS I came to realize this all, I try to restrain myself but can I? I really don't know. I don't even have second thoughts about shopping... I just do it for fun and never reconsider what I've bought. But once it all sets in, I feel ashamed of myself and guilty for falling into the trap of fabulous-ness.Because really, do clothe make us beautiful people? I don't believe so... so what it is then??? Why are we so interdependent?
Hello Darlings,
I love this simple Maggie Ward dress with a tint of sparkle. It is comfortable and goes with anything. Tonight I wore it with my Mackage leather jacket. Never thought a leather jacket would work for me but it gave character to my outfit - and made me feel like a " bad ass".
Tonight's soiree was a dinner party at a restaurant followed by Romeo and Juliet Ballet. If you live in Toronto, the performance is incredible. Visual and emotionally charged - you won't be able to take your eyes off the stage. I am still overwhelmed how wonderful it was :)
As for my outfit, well I went for simple...with a touch of sparkle :)
I am wearing:
Maggie Ward Dress
Mackage Leather Jacket
Club Monaco Cashmere Scarf
A.V. Max Gold Studded Cuff
CK Tights
Ruthie Davis " Screen" Heels with Swarovski Crystals
I wore my Ruthie Davis "screen" heels with Swarovski crystals. These shoes make me feel like a princess and to match the patent leather of the shoe, I wore patent leather Coach wristlet. I really love how the Swarovski crystals on the heels complement the sparkle of the dress and the patents leather adds a bit a little something to the entire outfit.
I wore my all time favorite shoes by Ruthie Davis. These shoes always make me feel like a princess and to match the patent leather of the shoe, I wore patent leather Coach wristlet. I really love how the Swarovski crystals on the heels go perfectly with the sparkle of the dress and the patents leather adds a bit a little something to the entire outfit. I kept everything else, including hair and make up, fairly simple.... just the way I like it, simple with beautiful details :)
Tomorrow's plan is to visit the Art Gallery of Ontario for my art critique assignment. I am really excited, because the gallery was just renovated by Frank Gehry - so I can't wait to see building as well. I will try to take some pictures .
I wish you all a lovely and fun weekend :)
With Love...
Marta
Hello Darlings,
Some women dress in such extremes they represent everything that I adore - feminine, simple, gutsy, sensual and classy - she's comfortable in her own skin and knows that she's fabulous.
But is it Fabulous or Selfish???
I admire women who to dress impress everyday. Women who don't seek man's attention by what she wears, and exude confidence and sensuality that bedazzles. But people often so judgmental that you're dressing to make some kind of statement.
Seriously... why is it that when a woman dresses to impress, men assume it's for them. Or, women often chime in that she's being an "attention whore". Why can't a woman dress to impress just for herself? Is it ever wrong for a woman to wear stilettos and be perfectly polished, just to feel fabulous? Is it ridiculous to consider this selfish?
Well, if it is selfish ... then I want to be the most selfish person on the planet.
There's nothing wrong with a woman dressing up and feeling pretty.
Being Fabulous is part of our nature and there's no need to downplay it!
My fabulous of the "moment" are definitely loose trousers. I also love the simplicity with great details. More current favorites are: leather jackets, simple white shirts, structured coats with great details (ex. amazing buttons), and of course, wayfarers!
As seen on the runways, it is all in the details for Spring 2009 including: sexy but pretty shoes, leather gloves, zippers, cuffs, bows, clutches, and neat nails!
Being a girl is so much fun! So what are we waiting for? Dress so you feel wonderful, spoil yourself because you deserve it, love yourself because you're gorgeous and be confident because you're one of a kind.
Now put on your cutest pair of shoes and ladies enjoy being fabulous !!!
Forget men and others, just be fabulous for yourself !!!!
I wish you all a fabulous day !!!
With Love...
Marta
Sources: fashionspot; sartorialist; style.com
Hello Darlings,
I am wearing:
Maggie Ward Dress
Talula Hoodie
Mackage Leather Jacket
Calvin Klein Opaque Tights
A.V. Max Gold Studded Cuff
Michael Kors duck boots
Excited to reveal my new Michael Kors Duck Boots. I've been dying to buy them ever since they came out this winter, so when by chance I came across them on sale for $100 it was a done deal.
They are not exactly the prettiest shoes ever, but they are perfect winter shoes - rubber, water-proof but with a high patent leather heel. They are also incredibly comfortable and I can wear them all day without slightest sign of discomfort.
I am wearing:
Maggie Ward Dress
Talula Hoodie
Mackage Leather Jacket
Calvin Klein Opaque Tights
A.V. Max Gold Studded Cuff
Michael Kors duck boots
Twilight Collector's Edition and CD Review:
For my fellow Twilighters, I decided to also post some pics of Twilight Collector's Edition. Although the book is beautiful, it is only worth buying if you're (A) a book collector or (B) a crazy obsessed Twilight fan. In my case it is more B as opposed to A.
The gorgeous book includes: - a slide- in case. - the book is covered in beautiful cloth. - the inside pages are made of top quality paper with beautiful calligraphy. - the front page features Stephanie Meyer's signature. - it also includes an attached ribbon book mark.
As for the Twilight Soundtrack - every single song is terrific. Next on my list is the Kings of Leon soundtrack and Twilight DVD.P.S. I am currently working on my Spring shopping list...
What are your must haves for this spring?
With Love...
Marta
Source: kate spade ad.
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