Although I am only 20 years old... I've always admired those girls/women who have enough courage to overdress in the most extreme social way. By that I mean, - women who are not afraid to be simple, women who do not boost about their sexuality but instead make it discreet. A woman who does not seek man's attention by her outfit.But still exudes confidence and sensuality that is often times bedazzling.

But with a society so judgmental believing that if you wear anything outside of Uggs, American Apparel, and lululemon,then you're definitely dressing to impress. Seriously... why is it that when a woman dresses up, men right away assume that it is for them.Or on the other hand, other women think that she's being an "attention whore". Why can't a woman dress up for herself?Is it so wrong for a woman to dress up,wear stilettos, be perfectly polished and all of that done just for herself, just so she would feel wonderful. Would that be selfish then?

Well, if it is selfish ... then I am the most selfish person on this planet Earth. Because I think, that there's nothing wrong with a woman dressing up, feeling pretty and being amazing. It is our right, not a privilege.

Over a certain period of time, I have received quite a few e-mails and comments regarding my "student budget" and how I manage to afford my wardrobe. Although some might disagree with some of my choices and other might like them, in the end it all comes down to what I like.Because style is personal.

I am very thankful to those who continue to support my blog and express their opinions... it means so much to me. However, although I do appreciate negative comments/e-mails as well. Since honesty, for me, is one of the most cherished qualities. I found some questions to be inappropriate. Although I completely understand that curiosity is part of the human nature, I do not feel comfortable answering questions such as " if you have a job?"; " what do you do for a living?"; "how much do you make" etc...

I do not mean to be rude in any way, but I really do not see how this is relevant to this blog. My blog is just a way for me to express my interest in fashion and share it with others who feel the same. And if any part of my wardrobe, personality, style or even budget bother you - for that I apologize but I do not see the need for me to justify my choices and lifestyle.

I don't feel comfortable discussing private details of my life or disclosing any parts of my income.... In no way do I want to be rude, but I do hope that some people might understand why and respect that.

I am no fashion guru and in no ways am I advising anyone... these are my thoughts and ideas and I apply them only to myself ... So if in any way I say something that might seem offensive.... I apologize.

Prioritize

My Wardrobe = My Life

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Long Sleeve

To me long sleeve tops are just as important as tees and tanks. Details and great material are great ways to make a top feel more special for everyday. This is a category that can be easily bought on sale during any time of the year.

Denim

When it comes to bottoms, well jeans are number one. Personally, I prefer skinny jeans. And because I wear jeans almost everyday I buy them in different colors and shades. The most important part of jeans is the fit - and right now I am loving Corpus Jeans. The material is not as stretchy as J Brand and the fit is more tailored.

When it comes to switching things up in a denim department, I turn to my trusty Earnest Sewn bootcut jeans-comfy, super soft and look awesome. I usually prefer to wear them with sneakers.As for denim skirts and cut offs - well they are a great option for summer, but keep in mind as to how short you want to go. Less is not more.

Bottoms

Sweaters

Sweater Dresses are a fun way to stay warm during the cooler days but still look sassy and cute. Pair them with a cute pair tights for that perfect warm but still very fabulous look Keep the length in mind.

Dresses

Well, LBD is a must...Miller is my ultimate LBD- it's been there for me whenever a need to need just a tad more fabulous . For going out I like simple but fun dresses that can be worn with heels or flats and all seasons.

Shoes
I love shoes... they are fabulous and amazing. That's all to it!!!

I love love love ballerina flats...maybe because of my ballet background, but I just love how girly they make me feel. As for sandals, I prefer simple leather flip flop s orgladiators. Nothing too complicated.

When it comes to heels, well Kors and Juicy are my favorite brands. Michael Kors makes comfortable, fantastic quality shoes that are affordable. As for Juicy Couture,they are more of a splurge but definately worth it - picking them up on sale is a pretty good idea, that's what I try to do most of the time.

I think that every girl needs to own one pair of shoes that are only for special occasions that make her feel like a Cinderella. My glass slippers are by Ruthie Davis and I love them to death - plus,the Swarvoski crystals on the heels are a perfect touch. I got the on sale from $650 to $200 - so to need to to splurge but look and be patient.

Purses

Outwear

Everyone has their own preference - I prefer warmth. Living in Canada that's all that matters and surprisingly my Soia & Kyo have been keeping me toasty this winter. I would strongly recommend - their coats are simply amazing.

For spring/fall I choose wool blazer or leather jacket. Simple and easy to wear.

As for summer/spring... I love a trench for rainy days. Something thin and fun is all you need during the warm seasons.

Keep in mind that outwear needs taking care of to look it's best - make sure to take it to a trusty dry cleaner for routine touch up. This way it will serve you longer.

Accessories

LASTLY

In the end, all that matter is that you like it. It doesn't matter if others like it...It is all about you. And trust me, money is not something that will make you feel or look great it is all about your imagination.

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• Raindy Days and Guilty Pleasures

• The Savvy Shopper: hunting with your head not your heart

Here are some of my online suggestions... CHECK THEM OUT!!!!

1. Revolve Clothing.
This is my Shopping Holy Land... I love their selection and sales. It is up to date with all the trendy designers.No shipping fees for States and Canada, and we Canadians pay crazy shipping fees usually but not here ( it does take 10-15 days for it to arrive).

2. Bluefly

The extension of my Shopping Holy Land. For more luxurious things, this is where I go. It is simply amazing. Love it - plus it ships really quickly.

3. Retail me not
This is my Shopping Holy Land's Sacred Text.
DO NOT SHOP ONLINE without stopping here. If there's a code for a discount out there- they will have it.

If it was not for these sites I would not have what I have... CHECK THEM OUT!!!

If you have any awesome sites to share please do so.... thanks

I never thought that I would ever have to defend my spending habits...but I almost felt attacked with the harsh statements. All I wanted to say is that I am not some spoiled little girl, I do have limits. I've placed a lot of thought into this post, since it is a pretty delicate issue to address. I just wish that people would not draw assumptions about me too quickly. Please, do ask if you're curious, I will answer as honestly as I can... but please do not attack me with assumptions and accusations.

Thank you to everyone for taking the time to leave me a comment or an e-mail...I promise to get back soon. I am on my reading week and I will have plenty of time to catch up with all of you.... YAY!!!! I've missed you guys

I wish you all a beautiful day !!!

With Love...
Marta

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