Hello Darlings,

As I was getting dressed this evening to go out for a late dinner, I was watching some random dating with men complaining about how much a pain-in-the-a** "HIGH-MAINTENANCE" when it comes to their appearance.

The Male Perspective ... as described on ASKMEN.com

"High maintenance women are like high maintenance sports cars. They're lots of fun when you're out on the town together, but for every hour of showing off, there are another 10 spent on upkeep and repair behind the scenes. After hours of polishing the headlights in your garage, you might ask yourself -- is this really worth it, just for a couple of rides? Probably not, but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't consider dating high maintenance women.""These women love dressing up whenever possible, and are obsessed with all aspects of their personal appearance and grooming in general. This almost obsessive attention to detail usually extends beyond their person, to their homes or apartments, their pets, and yes, even their men. In addition, they tend to be perfectionists, overachievers, self-centered, and a bit vain."

- Pros: She looks like a million bucks

"High maintenance gals are arm candy, pure and simple. They look perfect."

- Cons: She knows she looks like a million bucks

"The worst pitfall to dating this type of woman is without a doubt dealing with her vanity. And other negative traits accompany vanity, such as being a spendthrift; she may blow huge wads on things like manicures, self-tanning, and keeping up with each and every trend."

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My Take

Although being "high-maintenance" has a lot more to do then just looks, most women are placed into this category strictly because of their appearance. I see nothing wrong with looking great. I love dressing up, wearing awesome shoes, and having polished nails. When I look great, I feel great!!! Sure there are extremes, but are so-called "high-maintenance" women are just the ones who enjoy looking their best?

Why do men refer to women in similar terms as a cars? DO I LOOK LIKE A CAR?????? No.... all I do is try to look great, am not self-obsessed, actually quite opposite... I am my self's worst critic.

 

What does "high-maintenance" mean to you?

Do you consider yourself "high-maintenance"?

Do you think being "high-maintenance" is wrong?

Darlings, I am really looking forward to your honest answers!!!

 

Tonight was a special date night, so trying to be sexy yet classy I wore my Nicole Miller little black dress together with my Mary Janes from Juicy Couture.

It was a special night, since it was my anniversary with Andrew. So I wanted to dress to impress on our special night to celebrate all the fun times we have shared the past 3 years!

I am wearing:

Nicole Miller Little Black Dress

Juicy Couture Mary Janes

Gustto Cokera Purse

Mackage Leather Jacket

Accessories&Beyond Bracelets in Gold

Well, I'm off to study. French is a good language to learn, but I had enough of studying languages with German last year. Four languages down, one more to tackle!

Hello Darlings,

Just returned from a romantic weekend getaway at Niagara Falls. It was a much needed getaway for Andrew and I to enjoy each others company.

A quick escape nearby can be way better as a couple than is a huge vacation and this was one of those cases.We stayed at the 80 year old Crowne Plaza Niagara Falls (opened in 1927), not only because I was fascinated with the history and its unique architecture but also because Marilyn Monroe stayed there when filming "Niagara"in 1952.

I am not a big fan of generic modern day hotels for a romantic weekend getaway. I prefer staying at a place with a proud history and character. On another note, The Falls are mesmerizing... stunning but the power of it scares me at times.

The surrounding areas have beautiful landscapes and architecture. Very picturesque, rugged but beautiful. During the day it was fun to grab Starbucks and chocolate fudge and wander around for hours., so I wore my favorite jumpsuit and flats.... super comfy!

I am wearing

Necessary Objects cotton jumpsuit

Juicy Couture Ballerinas

A & F Sweater

As for the night, we went out for dinner at The Keg Restaurant (on the 9th floor of Embassy Suites Hotel). The view is fantastic and the food great. As for the rest of the night, we had some fun at Fallsview casino.

As for my date night out outfit, I wore mostly black with a sequin top. The most exciting part of the outfit was the shoes... I finally had a chance to wear them out. I love them to death.

I am wearing:

Alice+Olivia Sequins top

J Brand 12" leg in jett

Mackage Leane Leather Jacket

Michael Kors Heels

Coach Patent Leather Wristlet

Seriously, I love Andrew's shoes as much as I mine... He's got awesome taste in fashion... :)

Everyone couple needs some alone time... and our Niagara Falls romantic getaway was perfect.

Hello Darlings,

After my date with books, I had a real date with Andrew. Yup, after two and half years we still go on dates :) Since we are not the couple to stay in, we are always exploring our city and the many cozy restaurants that it has to offer.

I enjoy reading magazines for inspiration, and dress up in new looks.

I bought this dress for New Years in Cancun and love it's form fit and pockets.

I also bought this Ed Hardy scarf. I do love the colors and the light cotton fabrics make it a perfect substitute for those days when it is too hot to wear cashmere. I am also okay with a tattoo effect in moderation, however I really love it on bathing suits, like the one I bought in Cancun Mexico.  

I am wearing:

French Connection Cotton Dress

Mackage Leane Leather Jacket

Ed Hardy Limited Edition Scarf

Michael Kors Booties

A.V. Max Cuff

 

Nighty Night Everyone!!!!

With Love... Marta

Source: absolutely oblivious