How To Get What You Want

Hello Darlings, Some will say that growing up is not easy, but I would argue against it.All that it takes is waking up to a new day and time will inevitably handle the rest. The hardest part of life is facing the challenges that will not only change your life but also you as a person.

The decisions that you face in life and choices that you make are what will shape who you become. An individual grows and gains a sense of oneself during the hardest times in life. It is in difficult situations that you tend to surprise yourself the most. It really is incredible as to the strength and drive one can master up when faced with challenges. It is also those hard times that you will look back on and know that they are the reason that you're here.

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When you're feeling torn in life just allow yourself to trust the instinct within. It might not make sense at first, but you will understand the reason once the storm calms. There is no easy way out and there are no easy solutions or shortcuts, which is why you must trust yourself blindly. Think about it, if you can't trust your own instincts, then how can you trust anyone?! First and foremost, allow yourself to feel down, frustrated, and confused. The harder the decision, the greater the outcome.

Allow yourself to fail and then get up and try again because if you don't, then you will never learn what life really had in stock for you. The past few months of my life have been a roller-coaster ride. With lots of excitement but also hardship, this is the lesson that I have learned or am learning as I write this.

With Love...

Marta